Sunday, November 26, 2017

Christmas Talk

I was asked to speak in sacrament meeting today.  My usual method of preparation is to study everything on my topic, make bullet points and then get up there and talk about it.  Kind of conversationally.  This time I wrote it all out because I was asked to talk about our trip, and Christmas.  I wanted to choose my words carefully in the hopes of painting a picture for the congregation.  Since I did that I thought I'd save it here, it went fine. 

So:

Rob and I recently traveled to Israel.  This was my dream trip. Since I was a teenager I wanted to go there and see where Jesus lived, and where he performed his many miracles. 
One night our tour group arrived back at the hotel and had dinner a little earlier than the other nights.  It was early enough that Rob and I decided to go out walking.  I needed something from the store so we had a goal of finding this item, but also we wanted to enjoy the evening out together.  The thing about Israel is that it is totally different than any place I have been.  It looks a little like southern California, but everything else is foreign.  The buildings are built with large stones and crafted in a manner that is unlike ours.  The street signs are written in characters that we don’t really recognize as letters (although the main signs are all in Arabic, Hebrew and English) the sounds and smells on the streets are distinctly Israeli.  We headed out and were very busy looking and listening and taking it all in.  We walked by many Jewish families returning from Synagogue, some stopping to play on a playground or to visit under the light of a street lamp.  We passed by groups of young men, talking, hanging out.  We walked through markets where street vendors sold kebobs and Jerusalem bagels, chocolates and fruits.  We passed shops full of treats and pomegranate juice and whole lambs handing in the windows.  We walked by groups of soldiers, and police officers both with their huge assault rifles.  Eventually we met up with some others from our group and together we walked around that night talking and laughing, enjoying the adventure, eating treats and having a good time. 

A couple of days later our tour took us through the same exact streets where we had walked that night.  This is what struck me as so interesting that evening we walked right by the garden tomb.  We literally ran our hands along the wall, walked under the sign that told us this was the place and passed by the place where the Savior’s body lay when he was dead.  This was where He came back and was the first to be resurrected.  The place where Mary most likely saw him and where he spoke to her.  We were standing across the streets from old Jerusalem, with the wall and the Damascus gate right in front of us.  And We never knew. 

With Christmas a few weeks away I thought about the obvious parallels between that experience and our Christmas celebrations.  We went to Israel to see where the Savior lived his life.  At Christmas we celebrate his birth and life and all he has done for us.  Because of our ignorance and the distractions of the world around us we missed seeing what we were really there for the evenings walk. At Christmas so many people miss out on the true meaning, because of ignorance, and because of the distractions of the world.  I’m thinking first of the many people who do not know about Christ.  Who aren’t yet Christians.  And I am thinking of us, who should know better, but who still get distracted by the buying of gifts, the twinkly lights, hallmark specials, and glitzy commercialization. Just like we were distracted by pom juice, armed soldiers and an adventure in a new city.

Today I have been asked to talk about remembering the true meaning of the Christmas season and to share a little about our trip.  I have to start by saying that the lights, gifts, TV specials and commercial aspects are not bad.  I love them as much as anyone.  They have their place and can add to the joy of the season.  They aren’t the reason for the season though and there are things that we can do to help ourselves and others focus on the most important parts.

As we are in the Christmas season it’s the perfect time to reflect on things we can do to make Jesus Christ the central focus of our holiday season and our whole lives.

So in no particular order of importance I have chosen to talk about 3 things that will make the Savior present in our lives (see what I did there present…like Christmas present only way better).  There are many others as well, but this is only a 15 minute talk J

First we can spend time in the scriptures reading about the Savior.

Is there anything more touching than the 3rd Nephi account of Christ ministering to the Nephites? It is my absolute favorite passage of scripture and if I am ever feeling sad, or unmotivated or discouraged I can turn there and the spirit floods into my heart and I feel better. 
3 Nephi 17
12 So they brought their little children and set them down upon the ground round about him, and Jesus stood in the midst; and the multitude gave way till they had all been brought unto him.
13 And it came to pass that when they had all been brought, and Jesus stood in the midst, he commanded the multitude that they should kneel down upon the ground.
14 And it came to pass that when they had knelt upon the ground, Jesus groaned within himself, and said: Father, I am troubled because of the wickedness of the people of the house of Israel.
15 And when he had said these words, he himself also knelt upon the earth; and behold he prayed unto the Father, and the things which he prayed cannot be written, and the multitude did bear record who heard him.
16 And after this manner do they bear record: The eye hath never seen, neither hath the ear heard, before, so great and marvelous things as we saw and heard Jesus speak unto the Father;
17 And no tongue can speak, neither can there be written by any man, neither can the hearts of men conceive so great and marvelous things as we both saw and heard Jesus speak; and no one can conceive of the joy which filled our souls at the time we heard him pray for us unto the Father.
18 And it came to pass that when Jesus had made an end of praying unto the Father, he arose; but so great was the joy of the multitude that they were overcome.
19 And it came to pass that Jesus spake unto them, and bade them arise.
20 And they arose from the earth, and he said unto them: Blessed are ye because of your faith. And now behold, my joy is full.
21 And when he had said these words, he wept, and the multitude bare record of it, and he took their little children, one by one, and blessed them, and prayed unto the Father for them.
22 And when he had done this he wept again;
23 And he spake unto the multitude, and said unto them: Behold your little ones.
24 And as they looked to behold they cast their eyes towards heaven, and they saw the heavens open, and they saw angels descending out of heaven as it were in the midst of fire; and they came down and encircled those little ones about, and they were encircled about with fire; and the angels did minister unto them.
How beautiful it would have been to be there, how blessed we are that we can read about it and the Holy Ghost can teach us that this happened, that it is true and that He has the same love for each of us.

Reading the scriptures teaches us what God wants us to know and it allows the Holy Ghost to testify to us.  One thing I really was looking forward to was being in the places where the events of the New Testament took place.  There is no way to describe what that was like.  There were several times when I was somewhere I knew that this was where Jesus walked, and there were times when I knew it wasn’t but it was so like it that the picture in my head forever changed.  One of those places was in Bethlehem.  At first we were not going to be able to go and it wasn’t even on our itinerary (something about a little land dispute between the Palestinians and the Israelis but not big deal ;)) then one morning we learned that we were going to go.  I was super excited.  We went. We drove by the four churches that all claim that they were built “on the spot” and we heard about the history and looked around.  Then we drove out of town a little ways to the shepherds field.  It was in that quiet field that I felt so clearly the Saviors love.  The ground is terraced and steep and rocky.  Sheep still graze there.  We sat and listened to these words from Luke 2
And there were in the same country shepherds abiding in the field, keeping watch over their flock by night.
And, lo, the angel of the Lord came upon them, and the glory of the Lord shone round about them: and they were sore afraid.
10 And the angel said unto them, Fear not: for, behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people.
11 For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Saviour, which is Christ the Lord.
12 And this shall be a sign unto you; Ye shall find the babe wrapped in swaddling clothes, lying in a manger.
From where we sat we could see the city of Bethlehem in the not too far off distance.  If it was night we would have seen the lights from the homes and the lights of the night sky.  I could picture that quiet night and that sacred proclamation.  Our guide then asked “do you want to walk over to the church and see the shrine they made or do you want to climb down and see what the manger really would have looked like”.  Of course we opted for the more difficult climb and as we slide down a bit of a slippery slope, and made our way between some rocks we entered into a stone grotto.  It was sheltered from the elements, and quiet, with a smooth floor and plenty for room for animals to rest and for a babe to be born.  Using different experiences from my life I can imagine what it was like that sacred night.  I know what it’s like to travel a long distance (although not on the back of a donkey).  I know what it’s like to have a brand new baby, what it is to wrap them up tightly and hold them close knowing that moments before they were with God and that this was a gift and blessing to me.  Now I know what the manger looked like, how it felt and it is there that I can imagine all the things I have read about my whole life happening.  It is not because I was in Bethlehem that this was a sacred experience.  It is because I have read and learned and prayed and studied my whole life.  Reading the scriptures brings us to Christ and makes Him a part of our lives every day…and on Christmas day.

The next thing is service.
We are here to Bless others.
President Monson shared this story years ago:
During a drive to amass warm clothing to ship to suffering Saints, Elder Harold B. Lee and Elder Marion G. Romney took President George Albert Smith to Welfare Square in Salt Lake City. They were impressed by the generous response of the membership of the Church to the clothing drive and the preparations for sending the goods overseas. They watched President Smith observing the workers as they packaged this great volume of donated clothing and shoes. They saw tears running down his face. After a few moments, President Smith removed a new overcoat that he had on and said, “Please ship this also.”
The Brethren said to him, “No, President, no; don’t send that; it’s cold and you need your coat.”
But President Smith would not take it back. [Thomas S. Monson, “My Brother’s Keeper,” Ensign, November 1994,
President Gordon B. Hinckley reported a pioneer Christmas he had learned about. He quoted a story he had read in which the author wrote:
I remember the Christmas of 1862. All of us children hung up our stockings. We jumped up early in the morning to see what Santa had brought, but there was not a thing in them. Mother wept bitterly. She went to her box and got a little apple and cut it in little tiny pieces and that was our Christmas, but I have never forgotten to this day how I loved her dear little hands as she was cutting that apple. [Hannah Daphne Smith Dalton, quoted by Gordon B. Hinckley, CR, April 1959, p. 119]
Incidently, THAT year President Gordon B. Hinckley has been in 20 countries and has had 137 speaking assignments with 731,671 in attendance (information provided by the Office of the First Presidency, 6 December 1997). This does not include general conference nor so many other engagements he attends as he represents the Savior and each of us.
When we serve others we really invite the Christmas spirit, or the spirit of Christ to be in our lives.
There are many sweet stories of individuals and families who give service on Christmas.  I want to share a story with you about a friend of ours in Texas.  His name is Mario SanteEsteban. Mario and his wife were immigrants from Mexico.  They have one son, young Mario.  They are a hard working, faithful family.  Mario has a taco truck business.  He sells his very delicious tacos all over fort worth. One week in Sunday School we were talking about Christmas and what our favorite parts of the holiday were when young Mario shared that every year he and his family put aside money from the taco truck business and then a couple days before Christmas they go shopping.  They fill their trucks with gifts and drive down to the border between TX and Mexico and over to the Mexican side.  They then go to a small village that is very poor and there they spend their Christmas.  On Christmas Eve they hand out gifts to all the people in the village. On Christmas day they share a feast (tacos I think).   No one even knew that this was something they did every year until Mario told us.  
It doesnt matter if we are the president of the church, or a young taco truck driving family we can all serve.
Whether we choose to deliver Christmas to a whole village, or to be a secret Santa for one family, or even to help just one person lets make sure that we make service a part of our Christmas traditions.
Mosiah 2: 17 And behold, I tell you these things that ye may learn wisdom; that ye may learn that when ye are in the service of your fellowbeings ye are only in the service of your God.
The third thing I want to talk about is being grateful.
James, the Lord’s half-brother (see Galatians 1:19), thoughtfully wrote, “Every good gift and every perfect gift [the Atonement] is from above, and cometh down from the Father of lights, with whom is no variableness, neither shadow of turning” (James 1:17). This being true then, we must grasp the true meaning of the Atonement and Christmas, which is Christ.
We must see and recognize all the Lord has given us and be grateful for it.  We live in a consumer oriented culture.  But getting stuff doesnt make us happy.  Instead we need to think of everything good thing that we have and show gratitude for that.
President Gordon B. Hinckley said, “When you walk with gratitude, you do not walk with arrogance and conceit and egotism, you walk with a spirit of thanksgiving that is becoming to you and will bless your lives.”3
In the book of Matthew in the Bible, we have another account of gratitude, this time as an expression from the Savior. As He traveled in the wilderness for three days, more than 4,000 people followed and traveled with Him. He took compassion on them, for they may not have eaten during the entire three days. His disciples, however, questioned, “Whence should we have so much bread in the wilderness, as to fill so great a multitude?” Like many of us, the disciples saw only what was lacking.
“And Jesus saith unto them, How many loaves have ye? And [the disciples] said, Seven, and a few little fishes.
“And [Jesus] commanded the multitude to sit down on the ground.
“And he took the seven loaves and the fishes, and gave thanks, and brake them, and gave to his disciples, and the disciples to the multitude.”
Notice that the Savior gave thanks for what they had—and a miracle followed: “And they did all eat, and were filled: and they took up of the broken meat that was left seven baskets full.”4
We have all experienced times when our focus is on what we lack rather than on our blessings. Said the Greek philosopher Epictetus, “He is a wise man who does not grieve for the things which he has not, but rejoices for those which he has.”5
Gratitude is a divine principle. The Lord declared through a revelation given to the Prophet Joseph Smith:
“Thou shalt thank the Lord thy God in all things. …
“And in nothing doth man offend God, or against none is his wrath kindled, save those who confess not his hand in all things.”6
In the Book of Mormon we are told to “live in thanksgiving daily, for the many mercies and blessings which [God] doth bestow upon you.”7
Being grateful will put Christ right in the middle of our Christmas.  Because we won’t be wanting more, we will be appreciating more. 

Walking where Jesus walked filled my heart with such gratitude.  One morning, shortly after sunrise, we stood on the mount of olives.  Our guide pointed across the valley at all the sights in order.  Walking thru the miracles and sacrifices of our Savior.  He pointed to Gethsemane and told the story of the disciples falling asleep, of Christ suffering, of Peter cutting off the ear of the soldier, of all that happened there.  From our vantage point we could easily see the garden and up the hill from it the east gate.  The gate that other soldiers would have walked thru and then down and across to get the Savior.  At night they would have carried torches and the walk would have taken some time.  He could have easily turned and slipped away into the dark, avoiding capture, avoiding pain, avoiding death.  He didn’t though.  He stood and choose to wait for us. He wanted to pay the price for you and for me.  He deliberately chose each step of the way to be our savior, our redeemer.  That one blessing alone is enough to fill us with enough gratitude that we should never want anything else.  But he doesn’t stop there.  He continues to give us every good thing.  To let us learn and grow and serve.  To bless us more than we can even imagine.  All of us.  Whether things are kind of awful in our lives, or whether they are awesome have infinite reasons to be grateful.

When our Heavenly Father wanted to save the world, He didn’t take over a country or develop a militia. He sent a helpless child to a choice and worthy woman and a humble and believing man living in insecure circumstances in a conquered land occupied by a hostile force. The harsh geopolitical and military circumstances of Christ’s birth should remind us that Heavenly Father can bless us even if the external circumstances of our lives aren’t necessarily easy or peaceful.  And we should all be ever grateful.



Testimony
I know the church is true.  I know that Jesus Christ is the Son of God.  That He paid the price for my sins and weaknesses and faults and hurts.  I love Him . I am grateful for the knowlege I have of the plan of salvation and that we can live with our Heavenly Father again.  I know Joseph Smith was a true prophet and that helped to restore the gospel of Jesus Christ on the earth again.  I am grateful for temples, and scritpures and the ability we have to pray to our Heavenly Father any time we want.  We are very blessed.

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