Monday, April 7, 2014

stories

This is one of my favorite pictures of me and my mom and dad.  I was a pretty cute little baby.  We were, I believe, and as is clearly evident by the folks casual and outdoorsy attire, "camping" at Russian River.

Tonight Tatum called us as she was having family home evening with her mom and dad and little sister Penny.  They were learning about families and she wanted to ask us some questions.  Among them were "will you tell me a story about when you were little?"  Grandpa and I both proceeded to tell her scary stories.  What is wrong with us?  I told her about man eating pigs chasing my brother and I as we scrambled up the side of a car and stood on the roof screaming for help.  They were blood thirsty I tell you.  He told of cracking his head open at the swimming pool and needing stitches.  We are fabulous grandparents.  I think he may have saved the day by recalling, at the last second, how he found "Tigger" a cute orange kitten and brought him home in his duffel bag.  Happy ending, he got to keep the cat.

It is always the drama rich, near death experience, fight to the death, nightmares and unfairnesses of childhood that are recalled first.  Why is that?

I do have a few fun stories as well.  For example: I remember mom and dad calling to tell us that Michael had been born.  Aunt Marie Jeanne was staying with us and she helped us make a welcome home poster for him.

We often played in the backyard.  We had a tire swing that we loved and a good climbing tree at our little H-7 house. We loved to watch Star Trek and would often play that we were an away crew using my barrettes as communicators and looking for aliens.  I was, of course, the Captain.

Mom wanted us to take herbs at one point.  She thought they'd be good for us.  I could not swallow a pill however so I had the brilliant idea of breaking it open into a cup of water.  I, erroneously, thought that a lot of water to dilute it would be a good idea.  It was a terrible idea.  A little bit in a quick swallow would have been much more doable.

My favorite food as a little kid was Kraft mac and cheese.  I remember going to the dentist to get some teeth pulled and coming home and sitting at the island in our kitchen and eating the cheesy goodness one noodle at a time.

I don't remember many of our toys but I have some memories of a few favorites.  I had a little people doll house that I liked to play with.  I remember laying in my bed, it was yellow and my quilt was purple with raggedy ann dolls on it which my mom had made, and wondering about the little people in the house.  Did they think they were real?  Was there some giant playing with my family like dolls in a dollhouse?  I used to think the sky looked fake, like someone threw a big black blanket across a box with twinkly lights in it.
I also remember getting a Bionic Woman doll one Christmas that I really wanted, and a pair of white roller skates with orange wheels that I also really wanted a different year.  Lana and I took skating lessons.  Our moms made us matching skating dresses and we would go to the rink and skate around with Olympic dreams in our heads.  Roller skating never did make it into the Olympic line up but were were convinced it would.

Back in the day we went to church several times on Sunday.  I remember sitting in junior Sunday school and taking the sacrament.  I don't recall if this was a weekly occurrence or if it was for stake conference or what but I do remember sitting by my friend Shelly.  We both had gloves on and she told me to take my right glove off and take the sacrament with that hand.

I remember the TV shows we watched.  First of all the TV didn't play shows all the time.  At some point the channels turned to a repeated loop of a flag waving and the star spangled banner playing.  None the less we had some favorites.  On Sunday nights our whole family would watch Mutual of Omaha's Wild Kingdom, followed by "The Wonderful World of Disney".  Each week we'd watch Little House on the Prairie and The Walton's. Of course we watched Star Trek and for some reason we watched Kung Fu.  Later on a remember my mom watching "The Love Boat" and "Fantasy Island" but were were not allowed too because it was too mature.  Sometimes Alec and I would sneak out of bed and lay behind the couch where we could see the TV but she couldn't see us.  TV was not a big part of my life growing up, I always preferred to read.  Lana and I would walk to the library every week and get a stack of books to read.  I do remember Val and Anna watching "My Little Ponies", and liking some shows as a teen like "The Dukes of Hazard", "CHiPs" and "The Brady Bunch".

When we moved to our Camolin house I had a green and white gingham bedroom with a secret safe in the floor. Lana and I both read Nancy Drews and wanted to be detectives so this was endlessly fascinating to us.  We walked to school many many blocks with a bunch of kids, and back again in the afternoon.  We walked slowly, talking and stopping.

My brothers and many strange pets.  We had a lot of dogs, many named Rex and one named Fritz before Michael eventually got Cleo and she stuck.  We had Heidi our cat forever. Then there was the menagerie.  We had Captain, the conure, many a fish, lots of snakes, turtles, a chicken (mine- who died the same summer I won him :( ) , bugs and spiders, more cats and puppies, lizards, parakeets, hamsters and I don't know what else.  Captain ate our wall paper. He also sat on Michael's shoulder while he rode his bike around the neighborhood.  One night I woke up to use the bathroom and found a snake curled up by the bathtub.  I went to wake up the boys and was asked in sleepy voices "what color is it?" and when I replied they said, "oh don't worry that's not a poisonous one".

We spent time each season working at the church farm.  Also picking fruit for ourselves.

Every year we went to the beach to camp for a week.

Hanging out in the desert was a real activity , as was riding our bikes, riding horses, laying on the grass, practicing our mind reading skills, climbing up onto the roof and other fun things.

My favorite game was Chinese checkers, favorite ice cream was mint chip (From Thrifty), favorite color was red, number 7 and music was anything by John Denver.

I remember one fun birthday party that Alec had.  His birthday was the day before Halloween and we had a costume party for him one year.  We played lots of games and ate hot dogs on a big sheet spread out in the living room.

Mom had a big black trunk with old clothes and dance recital gowns and stuff in it.  At Halloween we would open the trunk and rummage.  One year I was a pink princess and was mad because I had to wear an ugly sweater under the dress.

We had the pinewood derby in our backyard when Alec was a cub scout and twice we went to Disneyland.

Next time I'll be better prepared with a happy story!

Sunday, April 6, 2014

General Conf Weekend!


Today is April 6th.  Jesus Christ's actual factual birthday and also the anniversary of the restoration of the church and general conference!  Spring has sprung and it's the season of new life, which is appropriate.

Conference watching
We love that we can watch conference at home, in our pajamas with our snacks and quite games.  The kids played marbles on the carpet for a whole hour.

The talks were AmAzInG!!!! Can't wait for the last session, and to watch the talks over again in the coming months.  I love the inspiration and the instruction we get.  
half time walk


Saturday, April 5, 2014

Last egg hunt?

Our neighborhood had it's egg hunt tonight. We always like to go to the night hunt. Two cute moms spent many hours making darling frosted sugar cookie eggs for each child! More than 200 cookies were made. The Easter bunny made an appearance and Lu got in line to say hi! I wonder if this is our last year to go? Certainly if not the last we are getting near the end as we have big kids now and no littles.

Bug day

Today was bug badge day for the Brownies. We went to Ann Marie Gardens and it was really fun. We made bug boxes and posters and went on a bug searching hike and lots of other fun things! The weather is nice too which is awesome!
Also this morning Bub had a soccer game and they won.

Friday, April 4, 2014

9 more days...

I.can.NOT.wait!

Sometimes the children say that when I write my blog I make our lives sound more fun, and nicer than it really is.  I don't know. I try to be accurate and truthful, at the same time I do generally try to focus on the positive.  That's how life is though, you try to see the best and find joy in any circumstance.

If I wanted to I could focus on things that were less fun and complain about life instead.

I could write about how Hannah's room is such an abyss that the dog is afraid to walk into it, or I can write about how last night she spent an hour curling Grace's hair while Ethan was at soccer practice and we came home to hear them giggling together in the bathroom.

I could complain that Ethan wore his cleats up the stairs and across the house on his way to the shower and left dirt clumps all along his path like Hansel and Gretel's breadcrumb trail markers, or I could instead say how when we pointed it out to him he went and picked them up...at least the ones he could see, which were not all of them because he didn't see them on the floor in the first place but at least he was willing and frankly the boy can't find water in the ocean.  (head shake)

I could mention that Grace stomped around "looking everywhere" for her library books, and was complaining and carrying on in a most snarky manner and then when I went upstairs they were sitting on her bed. In plain sight. Or I could tell you that when I brought them to her she said "thank you mom!" and gave me a kiss on the cheek.

I could say that this morning, before the clock even struck 6am each of the children were reprimanded for something, and one in particular didn't take it well and there was not "Beauty all around"....or I could say that dad drove Hannah to seminary and she was clean and smiling sweetly when she got there, and Lu had all her books and media free mornings were eventually remembered and adhered to, and the boy found his shoes and got his permission slip signed (the one he was supposed to show me last night but didn't) and made it out the door in time for the carpool.

There is a lot of good and sweet each day.  There is probably more annoying and frustrating each day as well and I get to chose what I write about and what I remember and I hope they younglings use the same soft perspective when they remember me.

Thursday, April 3, 2014

challenges


funny girl
" life is full of difficult choices, isn't it", the wisdom of Disney.  They are often right, which is why their movies and themes resonate with people for generations.

One of my challenges is keeping my familia clothed.  For the boys this means I go to the store and buy clothes and bring them home.  They try them on, or peek in the bag and declare they will not wear them, then I exchange them and so on and so forth until we have a winner.  Well, for R I usually bring it home and he's fine with it, the boy is not.  He hates to shop and hates to try on clothes and only wants to wear slickies. 
Then there is the laundry part, and the matching up the socks part, and the keeping the girls modest part.

Being a teen brings with it a lot of challenges. What has our teen been up to?  Practicing her sewing skills, her stem tying skill and her selfie photography skilz! 

Tuesday, April 1, 2014

April Fools

This cute picture of Penny Jane has nothing to do with anything except she looks like she just pulled a prank! and her Mimi misses her terribly.

So my big plan for the day was to drive to the stake center and clean the closet.  Jodie came with and we met Tara.  The big closet clean went well and we threw away a bunch of stuff we didn't need and organized the rest and felt pretty good about ourselves.  Except I threw away a bunch of old permission slips and now am worried that I should have shredded them instead. They were from a long long time ago.
Anyway, the missionaries were meeting in the building as well.  And while we were cleaning we found a huge roll of caution tape.  So one of the three of us thought it would be a good idea to tape the Presidents door as he would be doing interviews tonight.  Then we thought better of it.  Another of us thought taping the missionaries car would be good.  The other two agreed and so a plan was hatched.  We went out in the parking lot and began our work.  Around and around and over and under we went...we were on our way to a nicely wrapped car when the elders came out into the parking lot and told us it was NOT their car. OOOPS!  They did relieve us of the rest of our tape however and someone got a nice surprise, along with a Aprils Fool's note.   This is why I don't prank, it never goes well!

Today Grace had French lessons and also Brownies.  Ethan had science and math homework.  Hannah has been on a skirt making spree.. which means a messy sewing area for me.  Why does she leave a trail of debris in her wake? And R worked late.